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Vanilla is not my favourite flavour of ice cream

We are all told, “live your life to the fullest”; I believe we are all here to do just that.

This is the ultimate guide for sexy, savvy swingers.

I have always been a curious girl, and once I gained a deeper understanding of human behaviour and why we are driven to do what we do, I wanted to use my knowledge to enhance my alternative lifestyle!

Now, after many delicious years of research, I can share with you, my loyal readers as to what inspires me in this crazy world. So, sit back, relax, and read on.

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Come join me, you know you want to...

We humans really do give ourselves a hard time. Why do people do what they do?  Are we all slaves to our most basic intimate needs and desires? And what impact do these desires have on our lifestyles and relationships?

 Do you gain from them, grow and discover an alternative approach? Or do you find yourself asking the same questions, being confronted by the same frustrations? After all, we aren’t taught this stuff at a young age, instead, we are taught to follow a moral compass, an appropriate guide to life, whereby we are governed by a set of social ideals and not human nature, which I believe is dismissed for the large part.

I understand that we cant all act upon our instincts all the time, it simply wouldn’t be progressive. But,  is there a solution?

Once I started to understand why we do what we do, I wanted to use my new-found knowledge to enrich and explore my already increasingly alternative sex life. Swinging seemed like a natural progression, and once I understood how the human mind and body responds to these situations I was able to put my fears to one side and enjoy, in all its glory!

Now, having spent a good few years indulging my kinks, and getting to grips with what's hot and what's not in the swinging world,  I wanted to share with you the complete guide to sexy, savvy, swinging. Soon you will be seductive, smart and in the know.

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